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  • Writer's pictureShe Selfish


Updated: Jun 4

Straight out the gate I’m going to tell you giving up is not an option you “ STICK WITH IT."

You have worked so hard to get to where you are. Yea the easiest thing to do would be to just go home and throw in the towel on whatever is giving you troubles but what comes easy won’t last and what lasts won’t come easy. You can’t lose sight of your dreams because you’re probably closer to them than you think. I can remember growing up being told ,If you're not following your dreams then what are you doing? You have to figure out what it is that you want and chase it. Don’t settle. Most people give up on themselves easily because they feel as though they have tried too many times and it just never worked out. But what if the next time you try and everything falls into place. What did Cardi say “ get knocked down nine but get up ten”. Our time here is short and I refuse to waste it trying to live someone else's life or by other folks standards. Everyone has opinions on who you should be or what you should do; don't let the noise of other's opinions drown out your inner voice. Have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. Being your authentic self takes courage just like It takes courage to start over again. Be who you want to be. It’s faith over fear for fear is the thief of dreams. You have the tools inside you to make your goals your reality. Accept where you are and the responsibility that you're going to take yourself where you want to go. No one said it was going to be easy if it were easy everyone would do it. I may not be in any position to tell you what to do or how to live your life but what I do know is that everyone gets a second chance. Even if the world may seem like it is ending and there is absolutely nothing you can do...but “ STICK WITH IT”!  Hey, you never know how strong you are until strong is the only choice you have. Believe everything out there is a miracle, everything, including you. Your life is not a mistake it’s imperfectly perfect just for YOU! Everything that happens in life  has a lesson in it.  It’s time to take your life in your own hands and treat everyday as an opportunity. Celebrate everything that comes your way ; if you don't appreciate what you have now, all you'll ever want is more. What you possess is your uniqueness, your specialness and you don't need anything else. Take who you are and accept it. Nobody is going to accept it for you. It's so cliche to say live everyday like it’s your last because i’m guilty of not doing this. Start with just living one day like it's your last. One day! 

You are writing the story of your life, don’t let anyone else hold the pen. Write the story you want people to read. All in all the master key is just to “STICK WITH IT”!

Tannis Richardson



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